Couples Who Haven’t Had Sex Yet Play a Lie Detector Game | Filipino | Rec•Create
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gusto ko na matulad.
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Sana ito na lingkang ako.
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Pwede tayo mag Netflix and chill eh.
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Dito na lang para may ano,
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Ayaw mo ko ako yung kahiyak.
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Hello, I'm Nicole.
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Hi guys, I'm Morianne.
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Hello, my name is Gabby.
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My name is Aldren.
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And we are in a relationship.
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Since September 2021.
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We've been together for almost 7 years.
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And we haven't done it.
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We're a couple that haven't had sex yet.
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May trust issues kami joke.
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It's more of a...
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sinabi niya sa akin na hindi pa siya ready ganun.
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I wouldn't call myself a conservative person.
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Pero it's a personal choice that I've made for myself.
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But it's probably because of my religious upbringing.
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And it's not that I'm making him wait on purpose.
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Wala naman kasi nagmamadali sa amin eh.
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So, you know, hindi naman siya need.
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We didn't really want to take the risk.
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yeah, sure may mga contraceptives out there.
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But, you know, there's that small percent na
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And at this point in our lives,
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for us, it's not really worth it yet.
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Not that I think it's wrong or shameful
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to engage in sex, of course.
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Pero, ewan ko eh,
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masaya naman kami sa kasama namin together.
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And siya, hindi naman niya ako pinipilit.
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Alam mo naman, we have to wait for consent.
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Kasi nga, consent is king nga. Sabi nga nila.
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So today, kagawa natin,
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we are going to test your relationship
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as a couple with a lie detector and a self-question card.
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Who is more clingy?
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You're more clingy.
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I'll find out hard to believe first.
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Sabi sa'yo, yung sasabi ang totoo.
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Gumagana ba talaga to?
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Aminado na muna kong clingy ako ah.
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Tingin mo, mas clingy talaga ko.
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Kasi yung love language niya, physical touch eh.
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Bigla-bigla na lang ito, magpapa-out.
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Sabihin niya, di mo ko hinakog.
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Napapansin ko, there were more times na
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mag-a-goodbye na kami after a date,
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and then she's gonna cry in the middle.
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Parang, aww, sige,
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strain muna tayo like 5 or 10 more minutes.
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Sige, sige, sige, sige.
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Di naman over-clingy no.
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Can I have a drink then?
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do I turn you on?
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May kita to ni mommy.
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I mean, obviously, I'm attracted to him, so.
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Nakahurt naman na feelings yun.
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Kaya nga tinamog ng lie detector.
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You would believe this over me?
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Oh, lie detector nga eh.
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Kasi, syempre, before kita nakilala,
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physically ako na-attract sa'yo eh.
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But of course, in my case,
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there are barriers that I don't want to cross.
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Kasi yung turn on,
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di lang naman sa physically, di ba?
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Minsan, baka mamaya may sabihin ka sa'kin, di ba?
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May matitrigger sa brain ko or whatever, ganun.
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Obviously, like, the emotional side.
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So, he's very thoughtful.
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And, like, he listens a lot.
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If I say something,
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I don't have to say it twice
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because he remembers.
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Umm, well, he's a good kisser.
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Mukita ni Tito to.
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Tinanong naman nila yan sa'kin eh.
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Ay, tinanong naman nila.
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Oh, this one. I like this one.
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Do you watch porn?
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Sorry, mom and dad and all my siblings,
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Parang feeling ko,
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lahat ng nanonood dito,
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parang hindi na sila niniwala.
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Oh, eh di nag-doy ka na talaga.
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Syempre, I've watched porn na.
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Ding-dong-ding-dong.
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Pero, mas reader ako eh.
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I read a lot of, ano,
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new adult na novel.
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I mean, it's porn.
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Every teenage boy, you know,
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is exposed to it.
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And, we've also talked about it before,
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na parang, for her, it's okay.
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May kailangan ako na hindi niya
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kayang agawa ngayon.
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So, parang, it's just safer to do it on your own.
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So, pag hini-imagine mo,
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Sige, fine. That's fine.
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do you still believe
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that first time should be special?
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First time should be special?
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Ayos mo, sagot mo.
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it's a yes because
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I can't really be attracted
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to someone physically
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unless there's an emotional connection first.
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Siyempre, I just don't want to, like,
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do it with someone I don't even care about.
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Not just, like, first time in sex.
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First time in general.
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it's so monumental in your life.
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hindi siya kailangan
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kung comfortable din sa paligid.
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It doesn't have to be, like,
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sobrang romantic nung setup.
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Nagsetup pa kayo ng roses
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o mahal yung candles.
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Basta ginawa mo yun
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with someone yun.
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Like, special na yun, diba?
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Kailangan lang din,
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When it comes to this,
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or when it comes to intimacy,
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do you think that having
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a high-quality mattress
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would help to make intimate moments
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When it comes to environment,
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hindi saan kayo nakahiga, diba?
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because you have to be comfortable.
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Siguro naman lahat tayo,
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pag nagka-cuddle,
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siguro mas gusto natin
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yung maganda yung inihigaan natin,
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Hindi ko may imagine sa sahig.
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diba, nakaganong ka the whole time.
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ang sakit sa likod.
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Pag ikaw yung nasa baba,
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pwedeng palit tayo
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ako na lang sa taas,
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Pag yung mattress,
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very comfy, diba?
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it really settles the mood rin,
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kailangan din lahat tayo din
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doon tayo komportablo,
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doon tayo matutulog lage.
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kahit lights off,
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the mattress that you're lying on
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has diamond particles inside.
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Bakit siya malamot?
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So, this is called
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the Emma Diamond Hybrid Mattress.
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is it quickly dissipates
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promising that you achieve
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in pre-record time.
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With this mattress also,
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you can sleep better together
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Motion Isolation Technology.
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So, you'll experience
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even if your partner
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malikot ka matulog,
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makakatulog pa rin
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kasi di siya gumagalaw.
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Kailangan natin to.
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bagay sa atin to,
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magulo ka matulog,
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Okay, hindi ka magigising.
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Hindi, magigising.
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just want to share,
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you guys can check the pillow.
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pasokin ka naman dito.
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So, you can put your arm.
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hirap pa naman ako
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comfy na position
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gets ko yung usability part,
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Hindi ata ako ready dyan,
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I'm actually excited.
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I've done it before.
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di lang pa talaga ready
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and you can't force yourself
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if di ka pa ready.
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Well, technically,
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matatakot ako doon sa bata
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na magkakaroon tayo
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after nine months.
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buyas para sa kami.
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nung first time ko,
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doon ako kinabahan
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syempre maraming risks
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when you do that.
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I know naman how to be safe
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And, I'm not sensitive
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to talk about this stuff
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wala pa akong experience.
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There was this time
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na I thought about it
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and it made me feel insecure.
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it's something na
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I won't be able to
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let him experience yet.
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But, at the same time,
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I know that he loves me
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and I'm sure that
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he won't let me compromise
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on my own beliefs
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just to satisfy him.
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no judgment din naman
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na who has experience
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or who are sexually active.
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considering walang consequences,
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I think it's a nice experience
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just to discover each other.
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It's something that we never did.
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Never naman natin ito ginawa.
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Pero, andito tayo, right?
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I love her more than that
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whatever she wants to do
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Wala ba kami mag-expect?
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Kabahan ka na ulit.
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Have you ever fantasized
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about someone else?
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I explain ko mga maya.
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Anong feeling mo, alam mo?
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Ibig sabihin, no.
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Tanggap naman kita
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kung ano mangyari.
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I think tokos na, so.
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Lagot ako mamaya.
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I may or may not have
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Oh, that's understandable.
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I don't think I have
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like yung other person
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na kailala natin.
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Actually, ako din.
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Hindi naman ako bothered na.
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Kaya nang pag-usapan natin
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I think comfortable naman
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kaming sa isa't-isa.
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We can talk about anything.
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hindi, kasi hindi ikaw.
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Oh, ano ba naman?
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Ikaw yung tinatanong e.
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Ask them anything
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that can be answered
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with a yes or no.
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sa mga friends natin
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pag nag-share sila
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about sa mga sex life nila?
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Tatakang nga ako sayo e.
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ikaw pa yung hype na hype
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Parang instigator ba?
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Tapos hindi ka na
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Nagkikisama ka lagi
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Baka siguro totoo ako
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kasi makayari din sa atin.
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I'll be good in bed?
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Yeah, I think so din.
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Doon rin sinagot mo
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I'm shocked and upset
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it's your first time
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I'll just ask you
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the same thing kanina.
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I'll be good in bed?
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Huwag na shock ka.
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nakaka-shock talaga
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because ever since
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yung emotional aspect
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na what's more important
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Siguro context din.
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Noong birthday ko kasi
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which was just like
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Pumunta siya sa bahay
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may dala pa siyang mga
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food na pwede kong kainin,
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at whispering lang.
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sexually frustrated
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So what do you do?
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Tintayin muna natin
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saka na i-follow up question.
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Wait, nashock nga ako
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sexually frustrated.
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hindi natin mapigilan,
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Parang you're so turned on.
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Naghahanap na lang kami
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ma-fulfill yung ano na yun.
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Huwag kong sabihin.
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Huwag kong ituloy.
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It's gonna be a long conversation
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Hindi, basta parang ano
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finish on my own.
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Last question ata.
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even without sex?
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I don't need that
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in my life right now.
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Very much, very much.
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So, kung di ka happy,
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maalisin muna natin.
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ito talaga yung sinungaling,
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hindi naman ako yun.
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Nakakahirt na ng feelings to.
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Hindi, kasi kito mo,
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kung di ako masaya?
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Hindi lang naman kasi yung
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yun yung hanap ko eh.
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Nung niligaw ko kita,
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minanap ko talaga is
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yung parang genuine relationship,
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companionship, ganyan.
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Time with each other.
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Hindi lang to score
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at the end of the night.
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I mean, first of all,
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nag-set naman ng terms na yun.
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I just find so much joy
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in being able to spend time
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with the person I love,
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getting to talk to him,
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getting to hold hands with him.
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parang busog na ako dun.
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Kaya nakikita ko naman din sa'yo na
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masaya kayo kahit wala.
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During my previous relationships,
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hindi naman ako masaya,
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even without the sex and all,
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handle everything about me.
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Sex is really just the cherry
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sa relationship na meron kami.
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may exciting part.
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being intimate with each other is just...
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Siguro parang di naman kailangan
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Familiar kayo dun sa parang
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na meron siyang layers na
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how you know a person is based on
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what layer of relationship
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you are with them.
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Technically, ando ko sa gitna,
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you should know the core
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of the person already.
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Seeing your partner strip bare.
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but like, just getting to know them.
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Kasi, for example,
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when you're in bed,
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there's this certain vulnerable aspect to it.
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oh, how was your day?
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There's no need to pretend.
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There's no need to always
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ah, we know each other so well.
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So, thank you for respecting
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my decision na hindi pa.
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Kasi nga, hindi pa ako ready.
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Basta, wag ka mapipressure na
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Kasi, it's very special.
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May timing siya sa lahat.
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Pag may sing-sing ka na sa kamay.
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What's important the most is
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kung ano yung nakikita mo sa tao.
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And I can really see
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my future with her.
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we can spend the day
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on Emma's sleep bed
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with diamond particles.
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You're not having sex.
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Wala muna tayong spooning
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sa daring scenes direct.
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Ay, huwag kang buhay na yan.
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Okay, good night.
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Good night, guys.
