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00:00.0
Yung feeling ni Ate Girl na bakit ganun lang, bakit 299 lang?
00:04.1
So titignan niya, is it about the monetary value or does it symbolize something deeper to her?
00:11.2
My boyfriend of 8 years just proposed to me.
00:15.1
But nagigilty ako kasi I am upset due to the fact na the engagement ring only cost 299, diba?
00:22.9
Nagigilty siya at na-upset.
00:25.0
So ganito lang ba yung halaga ko?
00:27.1
Ay, na hindi niya man lang pinag-ipunan pambili ng ring or di ko ba dapat i-big deal?
00:33.5
Am I too immature to feel this way?
00:36.5
Hindi niya alam na nakita ko yung ring binili niya sa Shopee.
00:39.5
Ignore ko na lang ba itong napipil ko or should I confront him kasi ayoko din naman masira yung moment.
00:46.9
It's good na nasabi niya, okay, I feel upset and nagigilty ako.
00:52.0
Parang sa akin, big signal to na kung ganitong bagay, medyo nahihirap.
00:57.1
Pag-usapan ka, pag-usapan or i-bring up dun sa future husband mo.
01:01.1
Medyo, kasi nasa simulang-simula pa lang kayo.
01:05.9
Full disclosure lang tayo. So ikaw ba ay in a relationship, Alex?
01:17.7
And kung ang sunod na tanong mo ay engagement ring, actually, yes, meron din.
01:25.3
Pero, alam mo, may husband.
01:27.1
May husband did that more kasi naisip niya na tradisyon sa Pilipinas yan na sa totoo lang napaka-American eh.
01:35.4
Kasi meron tayong preconceived idea na yung engagement ring dapat, di ba sa state sinasabi nila three months worth of tala eh?
01:44.1
Hindi, hindi ako payag dyan talaga.
01:46.5
Pero parang, bakit? Bakit kailangan ganon?
01:50.4
Kaya naglagay ako ng mga unsolicited advice for at the girl.
01:56.2
So kayo unang-unang muna ay mag-reflect siya sa kanyang nararamdaman.
02:00.6
Sabi mo kakanina tama no na nirecognize niya na siya ay upset.
02:05.8
Like I said, usually ang daming pressure kasi nga parang nakikibagay kasi tayo eh.
02:10.7
So parang isip tuloy natin kailangan ganon.
02:13.1
Pero sa totoo lang, ano lang yan, outside pressure.
02:16.3
Kailangan niya i-consider yung perspektibo ng kanyang boyfriend.
02:20.6
Kasi baka may mga dahilan.
02:22.8
Baka naman kaya 299 yan ay yung wedlock.
02:26.2
Pwedeng ring ang kanyang pinaghahandaan, at the girl.
02:28.7
Exactly. Baka naman yung bahay, diba?
02:31.1
Baka naman yung bahay yung pinag-iipunan.
02:33.6
In which case, okay lang yan.
02:36.1
Parang natuwa ka na ganon yung financial priorities nung boyfriend mo.
02:41.7
Tapos mag-communicate sila openly.
02:43.3
Kasi, naku, actually mababaw tong issue na to, at the girl.
02:47.3
Talong natin si ano, diba?
02:49.7
Tama lang tama si Alex.
02:52.7
Parang, naku, napakasimple ng bagay na ito, no?
02:56.2
Is it about mag-focus sa relationship at hindi doon sa sing-sing?
03:01.0
Kasi kesa sa mga talaga ng proposal, ito yung commitment, diba?
03:05.4
Na tayo ay magmamahalan.
03:08.1
At yung sing-sing is just a symbol, diba?
03:12.0
That's true. It's just a symbol. It's not a guarantee.
03:14.9
Ibabalance nyo lang yung mga expectations with reality.
03:18.0
And then, subukan ninyong intindihan ng isa't isa at iwasan na magturuan.
03:25.1
Ito yung commitment ring namin ni Edwin, no?
03:29.0
Sa totoo lang, itong commitment ring na to.
03:31.8
Nung binigay niya sa akin, two years na kami noon eh.
03:35.0
So, 19 years ago niya, binigay niya 10,000 pesos each.
03:40.1
Hindi niya sinabi sa akin, tapos pinagawa niya.
03:43.1
At ang frustration ko ay dahil siya sobrang excited niya.
03:47.3
Nasa mall kami, sabi niya, meron ako bibigay sa'yo.
03:50.8
At ano kung nasa mall kami, nag-shopping kami, ganyan sa'yo.
03:54.1
Tapos, binigay niya yung sing-sing.
03:55.4
So, parang, ano ba naman yan?
03:57.2
Nag-effort ka na na tinago-tago mo sa akin eh.
03:59.5
Tapos, sa mall mo na ang gagawin, ganyan.
04:02.6
Tapos, nung 15th year anniv namin, binigay niya ako ng sing-sing.
04:07.8
Nakakaloka, ang laki-laki.
04:10.6
Oh my gosh, okay.
04:13.5
Hindi ko siya sinusuot eh, kumpara nyo.
04:19.6
Ano to? Hindi ko siya sinusuot ever kasi masakit siya sa kamay.
