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Ano yung skins ba?
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So yung skins, pampaganda lang yun ng itsura mo para mas swabby yung experience mo.
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For example, ito sa Valorant, ito RGX.
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Ito yung River Phase 1.
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Uy, alam mo, Rod, okay ito ha.
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Kasi yung anak ko, parang nahihiya siya sakin sometimes to show me yung mga ginagawa niya sa games.
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Parang ngayon, mas nag-gets ko na ito yung through games,
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yun pala yung parang it helps her express yung personality niya and yung style niya.
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Saktong-saktong! Kasi nalaman ko lang din na pwede na gamitin ng anak mo ang Gcash Junior!
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Gcash na tinagdagan ng Junior!
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So, please enlighten me. I wanna know.
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So, ang Gcash Junior, sa isang simpleng pag-download na ang pwede na gamitin ng teens
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ang almighty Gcash for their purchasing and saving purposes.
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Sobrang lawak na kasi ng interest ng teens ngayon, ma, paano pa yan?
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School, or Fresh Fits, or merch, or games, o kahit talaga!
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And here's the beautiful thing, diba?
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Ngayong may access na sila sa Gcash, they could attain, gusto mo hulaan?
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Financial responsibility!
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Even at the young age of 13 years old!
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Ano nang gusto natin?
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And here's the best part pa, ang pinakamalupit na thing about Gcash Junior ay
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magpapakita lang sila ng school ID.
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School ID lang! Pwede na sila, kaya kung nariyan, bibili sila ng skin,
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pwede na nilang ma-set up yung Gcash.
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Ready, set, see! I'll teach you how to play Valorant 8! Let's go!
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Ako naman, patry ako! Ang galing!
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Uy, Rod, binaberel nila ako!
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Wait lang! Paano to'ng pagalawin? Hindi to'ng gumagalaw!
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Before I was in that situation, I gave up my work in Singapore.
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Mahal ako parang dating lang. Wala eh, bobo.
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Eh di, sige, Singapore lang eh, to the time.
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Wala rin. After two months, wala.
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Do you think love is enough in a relationship?
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Love is not enough in a relationship.
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Siguro yung panahon ng dati.
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Like, nasa telenovela times, kung paano nariyong pangako sa'yo.
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Sa panahon kasi ngayon, hindi niya eh. Kasi kailangan mo rin magiging practical at the same time.
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Yung love kasi feeling lang yun eh. Diba? Ang feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung feeling lang yun.
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Yung love kasi feeling lang yun eh. Diba? Ang feelings, nawawala.
02:40.0
Yung love kasi feeling lang yun eh. Diba? Ang feelings, nawawala.
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So parang ngayon, it's more on rationality than just love. So you have to be looking out for yourself as well.
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Na kailangan buo yung loob mo, buo yung utak mo before you say this is love already.
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Kasi if you go into think, yung mga mistakes sa ibang tao, puro puso lang lagi.
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Someone could tell you that they love you and that doesn't automatically mean that they're willing to adjust for you.
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That doesn't automatically mean that they're willing to compromise for you.
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Pero hindi lang naman siya about feelings. Kasi parang dapat you know how to make sacrifices din.
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There are times na nagkakamali siya and sobrang done ka na sa kanya.
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Pero kasi iisipin mo pa din yung lalim ng pinagsamahan niyo.
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You can actually grow together kahit dumaan kayo sa toxic phase.
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For me kasi love is the greatest thing that you can offer, you can give to someone.
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You cannot be faithful without love. You cannot be giving without love.
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You cannot be loyal without love. So love is enough. Kasi general na lang dyan siya sa lahat ng bagay.
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But I think love should be a choice.
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The best example is our parents. Kasi nawawala kasi yung love sa parents sometimes.
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Before, kringi sila. Before dating, may sex na part, nahuli ko na kay parents ko eh.
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Pero pag tumatanda, nawawala eh. Choice na lang nila to stay for the sake of them.
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Some of them children and then some of them para friendship na lang eh, companionship.
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Real love is something that doesn't feel like a chore.
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When a person that you love feels like they're sad or is going through something,
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it doesn't feel like it's trouble for you to help them.
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And kaya mong ipakita lahat, triggers or your traumas and everything.
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And kapag may problem siya, it's not a his or her situation. It's a we situation.
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Like, it's our problem now.
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You don't feel na parang you're walking on eggshells every time you're with that person.
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Then I guess that's love.
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I am willing to compromise in a relationship for the sake of love.
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Um, who? That's very hard to answer. Kasi marupok din ako. I don't know.
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Yes, I am. I'm willing.
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Wala naman two people na same na same, diba?
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So talagang may difference yan.
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And may times na need mo talaga mag-compromise.
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And kailangan nyo mag-meet halfway.
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Maybe, um, with boundaries.
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I am willing to compromise for love, of course.
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As long as it's reasonable and as long as it's in my control.
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And as long as it will make my partner happy.
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Ganun naman talaga, I think.
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Parang if your partner finds it uncomfortable for you to do this, then okay.
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Parang hindi natin gagawin yan since you're not comfortable with it.
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So you have to compromise if you want your partner to feel safe, to feel secured.
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You have to think na, pag ginawa ko ba to, makakabuti ba to sa akin?
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O makakabuti lang sa kanya? O makakabuti sa aming pareha?
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Ako naman as a partner, I'd also want someone to compromise for me.
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So I think it's a give and take situation.
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So, yun. I think yes, with boundaries.
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Ano yung, ano mo? Ano yung line mo? Where do you come from?
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And it's like jeopardizing your dreams and your personal goals na you lose yourself.
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Before I was in that situation, I gave up my work in Singapore.
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Nag-apply ako ng teacher doon. Tanggap ako.
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Pero yung natanggap ako, parang ito yung pala yung term nakapalit na,
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ay, yung okay pala kami.
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Nakala ko parang dating lang.
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Tapos, parang lumalalim na.
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Eh syempre, may trabaho ko sa Singapore.
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Tapos, meron ka na dito.
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Hindi ko mo pwedeng kukunin ko ito, iiwang ko ito.
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Eh di, sige. Singapore lang eh. To the time.
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Wala rin. After two months, wala.
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Siguro, I can compromise as long as hindi ko na binago yung buong pagkatao ko.
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Kahit alam kong hindi naman ako gumagawa na anything wrong.
06:32.0
Kasi parang, ibig sabihin, you're not in love with me.
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You're in love with the ideal version of me.
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Hindi kita kayang lokohin na ito ako.
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Kasi ito naman ako talaga noong nakilala mo ko.
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So, siguro doon ako mag-stop.
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Pero, kapag kasi gusto mo yung tao,
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tapos tingin mo mabuti naman yung kahihinat ng sitwasyon,
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hindi mo na mamalayo sa sarili mo na nakakapag-compromise ka.
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Yes or no, can you be in love but not be happy?
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Yes, it's possible.
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In love but not be happy.
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I think magkakambal yun eh.
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Hindi pwedeng in love ka, tapos malungkot ka.
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Wala pa akong nai-encounter.
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Kapag in love ka, makikita mo yung sarili mo na you are doing productively,
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makikita mo yung sarili mo na nag-smile ka,
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or nakikita mo yung sarili mo na parang inspired ka lagi.
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So, how can you associate those feelings sa sadness?
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You can be in love and not be happy.
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What if, kung arin, nagkasakit yung mahal mo,
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eh di alagaan mo siya pero hindi ka naman happy kasi, di ba?
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Kasi may nangyaring masama.
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Pero kapag dumating yung hardship sa mga couple,
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feeling nila, ay, may times na ayoko na sa kanya.
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Especially sa mga nag-live-in partner.
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Kasi nakikita nila yung,
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ay, ganito pala feeling na meron ka ng kasama sa loob ng bahay.
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Hindi yung katulad dati pag hindi kayo live-in,
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makikita mo yung good side lang niya.
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It's very possible to love someone even though they're mistreating you.
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Meron parang, what do you call this?
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Like, it's a trauma bond.
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Nabibate ka na parang nag-aaway kayo
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and then you're waiting for this person na like, suyuin ka.
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So, like, dun ka na-attach.
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Pwede siyang mag-resolve ng mas malaking damage.
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Hindi lang yung relationship mo mas isira but also yourself.
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Parang it makes you more miserable na you're,
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you have something but not really.
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So, parang you'd rather be just single if that's the case.
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Yes or no, is love easy?
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Love itself is easy.
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Tayong mga tao lang gumagawa ng paraan para maging komplikado ito.
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Love is supposed to be easy.
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It's supposed to be that warm feeling.
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It's like you're flying, you're floating.
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Actually, siya pa nga yung nagpapadali ng buhay ng tao.
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Siya pa nga yung nagpapagaan ng feelings ng tao.
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Kasi pag mahal mo yung tao, madali lang mag-sacrifice.
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Madali lang mag-compromise.
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Hindi love yung mahirap.
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Yung attitude mo, yung kung papaano mo siya i-treat
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or kung papaano mo siya gawin, yun yung mahirap.
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Love is not easy.
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Ayaw mo maging biblical.
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Kasi siya pag sinasabi niya sa love is very easy sometimes.
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Yes, I know that, pero in the setting practical sa mundong ito,
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Parang if you want to be in love,
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if you want to be in a relationship,
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you have to know na it's risky
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kasi no matter how much feelings and trust
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and time you invest dito sa person na ito,
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wala kang 100% assurance na he'll stay.
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Yung mga choices misan, iba-iba kasi kayo nang gusto.
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Meron kang decision na gusto mo ganito, ayaw rin niya yung ganito.
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So paano kayo mag-mimic halfway
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kung iba yung mindset niyo at the same time.
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It's difficult for some people,
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especially if you're going through something like mentally.
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There are days that's very difficult for me
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na I try to find in my partner.
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And there are days na I realize na
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I shouldn't depend on my partner so much
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because it's something that I have to work on myself.
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Hindi naman lahat ng tao is willing to give in.
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Yung iba naman yung mataasang pride.
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Yung iba naman sobrang mapagkumbaba.
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You have to be ready na, oh, this will hurt.
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Hindi lang ito parang, ah, mag-date kami. Cute pictures and all.
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So ang hirap i-weigh kung paano kayo magtutugma sometimes.
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Nag-figures din ang problem sometimes sa mga ganung decision.
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True love is when you can make anything work.
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Yes. Yes. At least sa akin, yes.
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I believe that to be true.
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May true love ba?
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Well, I believe that anything is possible with love.
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Kahit na maraming challenges, maraming problems,
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malalagpasan niyo yung challenges together.
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Kasi nga, true love.
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See, for example, hindi lang siya applicable sa relationship kahit sa trabaho.
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Kung hindi mo mahal o hindi ka passionate sa ginagawa mo,
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I don't think magiging productive ka eh.
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In the long run, baka nga, ma-burnout ka pa.
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Worst case, baka supoan mo.
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So, if you and your partner both know sa isa't isa
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na gusto niya talaga mag-end up together,
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you'll do anything para lang masave yung relationship.
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Especially kapag nagkita na nila na mag-peak na yung away
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or like yung situation.
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Parang, oh, let's take a break na this is what we have to do.
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I see now we're heading into the wrong direction.
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So, we have to take a breather.
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No offense, pero hindi ako naniniwala sa mga couples na
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mahal nila isa't isa pero naghiwalay sila
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kasi it's not healthy anymore or like pagod na sila.
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If you feel like loving someone is difficult or it's not enough,
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then it probably wasn't love at all.
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If pagod ka, then magpahinga ka.
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Pero huwag mong iiwan yung tao kasi ending a relationship,
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it's a huge movement.
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Another experience ko kasi feeling ko,
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feeling ko lang ah, feeling ko true love yun.
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Ginawa ka naman yung lahat ng best ko,
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pero hindi kayo naging kami.
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Kasi may mga scenario sa buhay mo na ginawa mo na yung lahat,
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pero hindi kayo nag-end up sa huli.
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Ang good side naman yung true love na yun,
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mas minahal mo yung sarili mo.
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So, I feel like with compromise and like kung love mo talaga yung person,
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you're willing to do whatever it takes to make it work
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as long as it's not hurting the both of you.
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Ano nga ba yung ideal relationship?
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What is my ideal relationship?
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Alam ko di yung boyfriend ko baka sabihin niya ko.
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Ano ba ba yung ideal relationship?
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Ako, I really don't have an ideal relationship.
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I have standards.
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Natakot kasi ako dun sa concept na
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meron akong tinitingalang relationship or type ng relationship.
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Then mamaya iba to sakin, hindi ganun.
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Natatakot akong ma-disappoint.
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I think ideal relationship ko is
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yung may fine line between being like magtropa,
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tapos may mga moments na feel niyo talaga na magdowa kayo.
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Someone na magiging comfortable ako kasama,
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na I can be myself, and accepted niya kung sino ako.
12:28.0
From my experience, hindi laging ako na lang.
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Ako yung nag-adjust, ako yung pupunta dito.
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Ako yung magsusurprise.
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Ako yung kailangan mag-iisip.
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Kasi two-way talaga reciprocal eh.
12:39.0
Ang hirap ng laging ikaw eh.
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So ako, go with the flow lang.
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As long as I'm being me,
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I think ma-attract naman ang universe ko na
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sige, ibibigay ko sa'yo ganito kasi ganyan ka.
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My ideal relationship I think is someone na parang
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is happy to see me all the time.
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We understand that there are instances where we really get bored
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but we're not tired of each other.
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For me, yung ideal relationship is
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when you both willing to fight.
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Or parang no matter how hard the situation gets,
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you still choose this person.
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And I would love a relationship na parang
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you grow together, you plant things together,
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ini-include ganyan sa lahat ng bagay
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even if it's just one person's dream.
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Yung may matutunan ako from that person
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na maggagayad sa akin
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and will help me become the best version of myself.
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Parang kung baga you feel like he is your home,
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sino bang may gustong umalis dun
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if you think he's his home?
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Parang the certainty na it's a ride or die
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na ito na talaga yun.
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So I feel like that's what it is for me.
